You’re The Best Mom

Florence, the missing woman with postpartum depression has been on my mind a lot.

Depression is a funny thing. And by funny, I mean heartbreaking. It brings you down. Makes you feel useless and worthless. When you’re in it, you can’t imagine a world out of it.

Combine this with being a new mother. You’re not sleeping, you feel like you have no control, your hormones are going bonkers, you (and seemingly everyone around you) is questioning your ability as a mother. On top of all this, we live in a society where we don’t want help. We want to do it on our own and we live alone. 

That’s a recipe for disaster. And the problem is, you never know who it’s going to hit.

Because if you have depression or postpartum depression, IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. Despite friends saying “just be yourself” or “get up and make yourself feel better” – that’s not a thing.

So check on those you love. And if there’s something wrong, don’t try and “fix” them, just listen.

If you’re in it, it won’t be forever. It feels like it, but you won’t. Seek help and talk.

And for the other new moms, whether you had a vaginal delivery or a c section, if you’re breastfeeding or not, if you’re cosleeping or not, if you’re going back to work or not… regardless of however you may be different from the other moms, YOU ARE THE BEST MOTHER FOR YOUR BABY. And your baby deserves to have you around. Because you are great.

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading my post-partum depression post! Check out my moming blog section for discussions on other amazing topics that are very important to me.

Written by Alex Turner